I don't like to label myself.
Say I asked you to go out and buy me the best phone you can find for $500. How do you chose the phone? Do you research the features, try them all out, compare, know your own preferences for operating systems and screen sizes? That would make sense. Here is the equivalent how girls pick their guys though, for the most part:
They go to the store and proceed to smash every phone onto the floor. Whichever phone survives all smashings, that’s the one she buys.
Which phone is that? Is it the latest high end big screen Samsung, or is it the shittiest button phone? Duh. The crap will survive, because there is nothing to it. No awesome screen to break. No complex motherboard to get broken. The crap will survive the smashing.
That’s dating. Whoever continues to make it through the flaking, the childish games, the bullshit, that’s the guy she ends up with. Quality guys with options won’t put up with that, and worse even some guys will take the bullshit as a challenge and play it as a game. I have an ex girlfriend who could definitely learn from that quote.
don’t work too much;
say what you think;
be happy. Well said.
Does anyone else really dislike people who self identify as “a foodie”? Jesus.